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Crunching the Timeline Tip #2


My niece Allison was going through her oncology fellowship in Orlando, Florida, at this time. In the beginning and throughout the entire time, she availed herself to me whenever I needed her. She also gave me information that helped me crunch the timeline and navigate the journey.

 At this point, I am texting her saying they want to send him home. It frightened me that he was in so much pain. I couldn’t imagine being able to care for him at the house.

She messaged me back and told me not to let them send him home, that I didn’t have to allow them to release him under those circumstances.

As I am writing this, I wonder if he had been sent home if it would have taken longer to get him to Moffitt. I believe because the doctors came in every day and saw him failing, dying, they were pressured to pass his care on to a more experienced and knowledgeable medical team. Specialist for cancer, at this point, that was still unidentified.



FROM THE NOTEBOOK
         
Monday 2-25-14
Family Dr. Dr S, pain meds
ultrasound to testicles
lower left

MRI pancreas  11 am because it was pushed down because of tumor
morphine

biopsy Tuesday morning

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